What is Confirmation all About?

It has often been said that confirmation is 'a rite in search of a theology'. There are different opinions about what it is for, and how it is related to baptism. As it has developed, it has three major theological strands.

• A gift of the Spirit - It is generally thought that gifts of the spirit can be received when a person is confirmed, not only at Baptism..
• A Profession of Faith - A personal affirmation of faith which if you were Baptised as a child was made by your parents and godparents for you.
• Church Member ship - Some traditions see confirmation as a when you accept the full privileges of and responsibilities of church membership.

Choosing a church?
A lot of people say that when you are confirmed you are choosing to belong to one denomination or another. This is understandable, but it may be helpful to remember that the Holy Spirit is given in confirmation and the Holy Spirit is the spirit of unity not church divisions. It is important to remember that God wants all Christians to be united in Christ.

Confirmation and Interchurch Families

Many children of interchurch families have been baptised in a celebration in which the ministers of two churches participated. Many have been brought up and learnt to worship in two churches, and feel that they belong to both. Not surprisingly, many of them want both ministers to participate in their confirmation, so that they may have the full privileges and responsibilities of membership in both churches.

So what are the options open to young members of interchurch families?

• Ask for a joint celebration of confirmation - This is a tough option because it means asking for something knowing the answer is likely to be 'no!'. But if you believe in it then it is important to ask. - The more who ask, the more Bishops will know it is wanted and will have to think carefully about their policy.
• Not to be Confirmed - Another tough option! Taking this option is bearing witness to the wrongness of denominational divisions
• Confirmation in one church only - This does not leave you cut off from the other church. You can be active in both congregations and be known to be a committed and confirmed Christian.
• To do everything that is possible jointly - Perhaps you can arrange a joint ceremony which includes elements of the confirmation service.
• Confirmation in one church, followed by second confirmation or reception into membership - While this option does not have the same symbolism as a joint ceremony, you would be affirming your own experience and belief that you belong to two churches.

How do I decide?

The most important thing is to PRAY about it - take it to God and keep taking it back to God.
There are other people who might help you too. - Parents, Priest/minister, other young people in the same position.